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ESTRANGEMENT

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It's a peculiar feeling being estranged from a person you have raised from being a helpless infant to an independent and strong individual.  The bond between us has been very strong at times.  I am perhaps guilty of expecting that bond to be so secure as to never break.  It's come as a bit of a shock that the bond was never very strong to start with. Parents make mistakes the world over, but to a child whose entire world is her family, the mistakes of her own mother are huge and even sometimes unforgivable.  That I understand. I was separated from her father though he was still very much present and we worked together to try to do what was best for our girl.  Andrew never had another woman, but I had a few relationships after the separation.  I'm not the best judge of character and certainly not the wisest person.  Needless to say, they ended pretty much broken.  My character is such that I don't give up easily and I didn't see the harm tha...

Margaret Thatcher Day!!

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Tomorrow, Friday 28th February, MPs are to vote on whether to name the August Bank Holiday as 'Margaret Thatcher Day'. Totally disregarding those who were adversely affected by Margaret Thatcher's actions, there are those who want to pay tribute to her by forcing her name on to our calendar. Politicians are public servants.  Thatcher did her job to the best of her ability and, I'm sure, did what she thought was right.  However, the nature of politics is that when you act for one section of society you are acting against another. To pay tribute to a politician in this way, especially one who is hated as much as Thatcher is, is an insult to all those who suffered under her premiership. https://you.38degrees.org.uk/petitions/stop-naming-the-august-bank-holiday-as-margaret-thatcher-day?source=facebook-share-button&time=1393435643 DING DONG ...  The Margaret Thatcher Day movement has been halted.  Congratulations everyone involved in stopping it in i...

How a poll can mean something or nothing

I watched Yes Prime Minister last night and there was a conversation between Sir Humphrey and Bernard which had me rocking. The party have had an opinion poll done.  It seems all the voters are in favour of bringing back National Service Well I’ve had another opinion poll done showing that the voters are against bringing back National Service Well they can’t be for it and against it. Oh of course they can Bernard.  Have you ever been surveyed? Yes.  Well, not me actually, my house.  Oh, I see what you mean! Bernard, you know what happens; nice young lady comes up to you – obviously, you want to create a good impression; you don’t want to look a fool, do you? No No.  So she starts asking you some questions.  “Mr Wolley, are you worried about the number of young people without jobs?” Yes “Are you worried about the rise in crime among teenagers?” Yes “Do you think there’s a lack of discipline in our comprehensive schools?” Yes “Do you think young people we...

The A75 Grand Prix

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I've been married to a man for 20 years who's described in very minute detail what can happen to bodies destroyed because of fast and stupid driving; a foot in a shoe, or half a head lying somewhere, debris scattered over 300 yards, eyes that have bled because the heart exploded before impact. That's the main reason why I don't do fast and stupid driving.  I've heard so much about it that I could almost feel I witnessed it first hand.  My husband was involved in an accident in which 4 boys were killed when they hit his bus at 90mph, airborne.  Three of them were dead before impact and the other died on impact.  My husband was lucky to have survived. That's why tonight's journey home frightened and angered me so much.  There are people who don't understand, don't know, or simply don't care. Tonight it's piddly pouring and it's pitch black out there on the road - no street lights, limited cats eyes, bends, turns, double white lines fo...

Message in a Dream

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It was a silly little argument that meant absolutely nothing, but I had to go off on one, didn't I, storming off like a kid in a strop. I should have known better.  It was dark and it was raining and I'd had a bellyful of Carvery.  Anyway, it was my choice to go driving off. I'd hardly covered five yards when a police van approached me from the other side of the road.  It was odd that I was driving on the right-hand-side - but then, so was the police van.  I'd not even got rid of all the condensation on the windscreen.  I was in a foul mood. So this policeman approaches my car and I wind the window down as he bends to lean over me.  He'd taken blood tests by the time I was in that little interrogation room.  I was saying for the umpteenth time that I hadn't drunk any alcohol, but he just kept interrupting me that he knew I hadn't, but the fact remained that I was over the limit and they were going to slap 3 points on my licence and a fine of £218...

Teenage Drinking

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I've lost count of the number of odd glances I get from people when we're talking about teenage drinking and why we should or shouldn't allow our children to drink in the house. Well, I do allow my daughter to drink in the house.  Primarily so she won't be suddenly let off the leash when she's 18, having for years been so eager to get into the pub and taste the nectar that has teenagers all over the world throwing up and ending up in hospital.  Also, so I can keep my eye on how much she wants to have a drink.  The last four-pack of Breezers I bought for her lasted 7 months. I can't keep my eye on her all the time, I know that.  I'm fortunate that she doesn't feel the need to spend her evenings with local kids; she'd much rather communicate with her out-of-town friends online and meet up with them occasionally.  What she does then is out of my control.  And that is why I allow her the drink at home.  Hopefully, then, being offered a drink away from ...

Working His Ticket

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My brother once bought a handful of concert tickets for himself and his friends who said they would like to go.  A little bit further down the line, my brother having paid for them, two of his friends said they couldn't make it.  Naturally, he was a bit miffed because of the expense, but they were mates and he didn't ask them for the money because they weren't going to get the benefit of going.  That left him with two tickets that he couldn't use. So, I sold them for him on ebay.  I put them on at face value, but on bid, thinking that maybe that'll help me cover my listing fees, final value fees, and that little bit extra that Paypal take off when a seller receives payment via them.  However, what actually happened was the tickets sold for quite a bit more than we'd hoped and my brother received the proceeds of the sale, minus my expenses.  Fair enough.  It was a one-off and we weren't about to set up in business ordering tickets from ticket companie...